How to Be a Good Client for Your Divorce Lawyer

By | October 2, 2023

Having the right divorce attorney by your side is crucial, but it is perhaps equally if not more important to be a good client for your divorce lawyer to ensure that your case progresses smoothly and efficiently.  In this guide, we’ll explore the key qualities and actions that make you a valuable and effective partner for your divorce attorney.

  1. Be Truthful

One of the first and most essential qualities of a good client is honesty.   Be forthright and truthful with your attorney about all the details of your situation, even if they are uncomfortable or difficult to discuss. Your attorney needs to have a clear and accurate understanding of your case to provide you with the best legal advice and representation.  Attorneys cannot help you deal with the “warts” of your case if you do not share them or wait too long to share them.  Managing the weakest aspects of your case often takes time, so share your issues early so the repair work and damage control can commence.

  1. Be Organized

Organization is key in every legal matter. Keep a journal and all your documents and records well-organized, including financial statements, communication logs, and any relevant paperwork. A well-organized client not only makes it easier for your attorney to access the information they need to build a strong case on your behalf, but it also saves you time and money.  Most family law attorneys bill on an hourly basis, so time an attorney or paralegal saves when organizing your materials is money you save in billable time.

  1. Come Prepared with Written Questions and Objectives

Before meeting with your attorney, take the time to write down your questions and concerns. This ensures that you cover all the important topics during your consultations and helps your attorney address your specific needs more effectively.  Similarly, come with some initial, clear goals and objectives for your divorce case.  Over the course of your case, those goals and objectives may change, but understanding what you want to achieve will help your lawyer develop a strategic legal approach that aligns with your objectives. Being on the same page from the start is essential.

  1. Bring Important Documents to Consults

When you meet with your divorce lawyer, bring any essential documents related to your case. This might include tax returns, pay statements or financial statements, prenuptial agreements, and any relevant court orders. Having these documents on hand will facilitate discussions and decisions during your consultations.

  1. Be Responsive When Communicating with Your Attorney

Good communication is key to a successful attorney-client relationship. Respond promptly to your attorney’s emails and calls. Be available for scheduled meetings and court appearances. Your cooperation and responsiveness help keep your case on track and avoid unnecessary delays.  Similarly, keep your attorney up to date on developments in your situation.  As discussed above, the sooner your attorney is aware of issues, the sooner he or she can resolve them.

  1. Follow Your Attorney’s Advice

You’ve hired an attorney for their expertise (and you pay a lot of money for that advice), so it’s crucial to heed your attorney’s advice. Your lawyer will guide you through the legal process and provide recommendations based on their knowledge and experience. Trust their judgment and follow their instructions to the best of your ability.

  1. Avoid “Self-Inflicted Wounds”

In divorce cases, emotions can run high, and it’s easy to let anger or frustration lead to impulsive actions with both your spouse and your attorney. Avoid making decisions or taking actions that could harm your case.  Listen to your attorney’s counsel and if you have concerns or disagreements, discuss them openly and rationally.

  1. Hire an Attorney You Can Afford

While it’s essential to have a skilled attorney, it’s equally important to choose one within your budget. Discuss fees with your attorney upfront to avoid financial stress during your case. An attorney-client relationship should be based on mutual understanding and transparency.

Being a good client for your divorce lawyer is about building a strong and collaborative partnership. By being truthful, organized, responsive, and following your attorney’s guidance, you can contribute to the success of your case. Remember that effective communication, clear goals, and budget considerations are also vital elements in this relationship.  Working closely with your divorce attorney as a proactive and cooperative client will help you navigate the complexities of divorce proceedings more effectively. It’s a partnership aimed at achieving the best possible outcome during a challenging time in your life.

Remember that every divorce case is unique.  Jason A. Weis, Esquire is there to provide personalized guidance and representation. By being an excellent client, you increase the likelihood of reaching a favorable resolution and moving forward with your life.  If you or someone you know is navigating the complexities of family law, consider reaching out to an experienced family law attorney like Jason A. Weis, Esq.  For further insights and legal assistance, don’t hesitate to explore other posts my website at or my firm’s website at



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