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Virginia Divorce Deposition Tips

Virginia Divorce Deposition Tips

Many individuals in Northern Virginia contemplating a contested divorce have never participated in a deposition. Their experience is limited to what they have seen on television and their level of anxiety leading up to a deposition may vary depending upon the legal dramas in which they indulge. Seasoned attorneys recognize that depositions – and the stress associated with them – create client decision points; attorneys understand clients are reticent to participate in depositions and anticipate clients will take action to simply avoid an unpleasant experience.

While depositions may never be truly pleasant, they need not be traumatic. Below, I have compiled a list of Virginia Divorce Deposition Tips, which I hope will help you successfully navigate your next deposition.

1. Tell the Truth.

2. Understand each question before you answer it. If you do not understand the question, ask for clarification.

3. Think before you speak. Take all the time you need.

4. If you need to take a break, ask for one.

5. Answer only the question asked. Do not volunteer information. Do not assist opposing counsel. Resist the urge to explain or justify.

6. Do not guess or speculate. If you do not know the answer to a question, say: “I do not know.”

7. Do not answer “yes” or “no” to a question that does not have a “yes” or “no” answer. Say that the question cannot be answered “yes or no” and then give your best answer.

8. Do not argue with opposing counsel. Be polite. If you get angry, ask to take a break.

9. Answer in your own words. Do not allow opposing counsel to put words in your mouth.

a. If opposing counsel misquotes you, call the error to counsel’s attention.

b. If the question assumes an untrue fact (e.g. “When did you stop beating your wife?”), state your disagreement with the assumption.

c. Be careful in answering questions that begin: “Would it be fair to say that…” Instead of saying “yes” or “no,” rephrase the question fairly and answer in your own words.

10. No humor or sarcasm.

11. Base your answer on first-hand knowledge, unless the question requests information you learned from other sources.

12. If your answer to a question is not based on first-hand knowledge, state the source of your answer. Otherwise, people may assume that your answer was based on first-hand knowledge.

13. Be prepared to answer questions about the facts alleged or denied in any pleadings filed on your behalf.

14. Don’t bring any documents to the deposition unless your attorney asks you to do so.

15. Answer each question unless your attorney instructs you not to do so. If your attorney instructs you not to answer a question, do not answer the question.

16. Exercise your right to review and sign the deposition.

If you have any questions about contested divorce depositions, feel free to contact me.


My experience and background reflect the hallmarks of success one must demand of a lawyer in Northern Virginia's legal landscape.  As a native of this area, I have here focused my practice on providing sound and balanced representation to clients navigating the difficult legal waters of family law, including contested divorce, custody, visitation, spousal and child support, and equitable distribution.  More >>>

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Thank you for taking the time to read this blog. I hope you find the information here as enjoyable to read as I find to write. Please note that reading this blog does not create a legal relationship between you and Jason A. Weis, Esquire or any other attorney associated with Moreover, all postings on this blog are merely attorneys' commentary on the state of family law in the Commonwealth of Virginia. THE POSTINGS ARE NOT LEGAL ADVICE – if you have a legal issue or question, I strongly encourage you to contact a lawyer. I would be pleased to refer you to someone if I am able.